A lot has happened. But basically, when picking up my son one night, I asked my husband how he felt about our relationship.
He essentially said he didn’t have much optimism, but that he didn’t want to be away from his son. He said he hated his job and his place in life, and he couldn’t handle a stressful home life in addition to his personal stress.
His solution? To have me move to my parents’ house, and move into his own apartment. I’m puzzled about how a person can choose a crappy job (trust me, he could have a new one in a few weeks if he was motivated) over his family. And then weakly offer that maybe, MAYBE one day, he could tolerate me because he didn’t like being away from his son.
I asked him how he thought I was supposed to feel about this. He said that was for me to decide.
So that pretty much means it’s over, right?
What kind of security is there when at the first sign of difficulty, he drops his wife and son over a crappy, easily replaceable job?